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  • ONE OF MY BIGGEST PROWESSES TO DATE 🥂 .. and not for the reason you might think. Indeed, I’ve finally headed back to New Zealand to get my hands on that degree I earned some time back! I was so eager to live (and in a bigger city too) — I rushed off to Melbourne before waiting around to celebrate, or even, to congratulate myself. I knew that at some point, I’d come back to Wellington. I’d shake the hand of some esteemed chancellor. 🙌🏻 It just so happened that Thursday would be that day. It felt good. But not because I finally had that piece of paper in my hands; a tangible sign of the work I did. It felt good because I had the chance to reflect. And finally, to pat myself on the back for nailing this degree in a most characteristic way. When I moved to Wellington to study, I made a firm decision that would be it. From then onwards, I would grow to be independent. I would call this city home. I would seize its every opportunity. And so whilst flocks of students headed homewards for Summer, I stayed. I made new memories. New friends. I learnt many new lessons. I threw myself into Summer school every year. I spoke to whoever I could, to take on AS many papers as I could (on top of working too. Towards the end, almost full-time). 🤦🏽‍♀️ Sometimes I myself wonder how it all came through. As a result, I condensed a three year (plus) degree into two swift years. 🙏🏻 I came out of that city, young and eager and ready. And much the way I felt when I first left home, I knew I didn’t need any more time in Wellington in order to grow. It was time to find my new destination. This Thursday gone, I felt proud.. mostly because looking back, I really listened to my heart. Despite the journey of those around me, I took it in my stride to write my own. As a result, I’ve earned an education, a sense of experience and of life at the same time. Whatever your story, take a moment to be damn proud of it. 💁🏽‍♀️ I sure as hell don’t do it enough. More details of my look coming soon! 💕 For now, see below! . 👉🏻 @becandbridge Elle Cut Out Midi Dress, with thanks to the ever-handy @hireadressnz. 👉🏻 Make-up & hair by the lovely Wellington-based, @m.y.artistry.
  • LIFE’S GOT YOUR BACK 🤙🏻 .. and don’t you forget it! I really do believe that life has a funny way of blessing us — and in more ways than we might be aware. First example. This absolutely heavenly porridge and a “Nana Bing” smoothie at @snowwhitebakerymelb. 🙈 I couldn’t have foreseen such a gift, if I tried! Talk about the blessing of all blessings. Second example. The girl laughing right here. Not me, lol. The other one. Despite the fact that certain characters in my life have fallen short, I learnt a long time ago not to feel unlucky. I looked around, and I noticed everyone had their thing. Their someone. Their story. And I noticed that sometimes, they didn’t have what I had. A super close relationship to their siblings. Support from a parent. And a wide group of incredibly loving friends. To this day, I feel absolutely grateful. Because whilst I don’t have everything, I’ve realised none of us do. And yet, somehow, life comes around and gives us everything we need anyway. Like you, @themelbournelook. Like you! And yes, we did order exactly the same thing at @snowwhitebakerymelb. 😋 And no, we didn’t have a single regret about it! Happy Friday everyone! I hope you’re just as happy with your lot in life as I am!
  • THERE IS BEAUTY IN BEING ALONE 🚶🏻‍♀️ .. and I think we all deserve to discover it. Just a couple of days ago, I wrote a post highlighting my relationship and my choice to do life with another person. Much as I stand by those words, I want to introduce another side to them. That is, the beauty of being alone. I’m potentially a rare case because I love my own time. But recently, I’ve discovered (and I’d love to share) a really cool reason why. This may sound odd, but I truly believe that I am BETTER at controlling my outlook, my mindset and my mental health when I’m alone. Perhaps it’s because I know there’s no one else to rely on. And so I’m forced to go back to basics. To the drawing stage, even. I’m inclined to indulge with intention, in the things that make me happy. If I feel down or lonely or lost, it’s on me to find a solution. I have to lift myself, like a child, out of her sulky state. This week, I’ve realised how thankful I am, for the many times I haven’t shied away from my own time. From my own head and from her own thoughts. I’ve put myself right between the rock and the hard place, and learnt to get myself the hell out of there. So whilst it mightn’t have been exactly what A.J. wanted to hear when he called from New Zealand this week — I told him I was glad to have this time. It reminded me that if I was only me in Melbourne, I’d be just fine. I’d look after this little head and little body and little being .. just okay. I’d stop to smell the flowers. I’d even have a giggle to myself. I’d feel content with only me too. And I’m proud of that. I hope that in future, I’ll still say the same. What about you? Are you comfortable with being by yourself? 🧘🏽‍♀️ Better yet, are you happy? If not, have you considered throwing yourself in the deep end to learn how?
  • POST-WORKOUT HACK 💁🏽‍♀️ .. why didn’t I think of this sooner? I feel many things post-workout, but let it be said, “pretty” or “glamorous” are neither of them. Picture Tom Hanks in Castaway.. minus the beard. 😆 I look more like that. And whilst I love a sign of a good workout, this isn’t so handy when I’m rushing off to brunch or an event afterwards. Yesterday, I wanted to squeeze in a quick workout prior to jumping on the plane back to New Zealand. I knew it’d be tight, but also, that I’d thank myself later. It was a foreign feeling when I left the gym, feeling more fresh and ready to go than I ever have before.. and all credit to the gorgeous team at @hibeautynails! 💅🏻 That morning, they’d treated me to a manicure, pedicure and eyelash extensions too! All I can say is: wow, the devil really is in the detail — and not just when it comes to how we look, but more importantly, to the way we feel. After my workout, I’d have happily headed to brunch; showered or not. 🙋🏽‍♀️ Make-up free too! As for my nails, this has been my first time trialling SNS and I’m already impressed. Usually I avoid getting my nails done (just ask @a_jaxcreative who absolutely cringes at the sight of them ☺️). But too many times, I’ve gone to live my life — and they’ve broken or chipped immediately. Yesterday, I worked out as usual. I didn’t hold back at all. 💪🏻 And to my pleasure, not a single flaw has forgone my crisp, white aesthetic! Finally, I can balance doing feminine things whilst being a badass girl boss too! I should also note that my last beauty appointment was so far from relaxing — I almost crossed off the entire concept as a means for self care and indulgence. After a visit to @hibeautynails yesterday, I’m entirely re-convinced. 👌🏼 It was exactly the calming and feel-good experience that I needed before leaving Melbourne! Do you have any other tips for fitting in your workouts when you’re in a rush — whether between meetings, brunches or events? 👇🏻 What are your go-to hacks?! I’d love to know! P.S. I’m bewildered at what point the frame behind me moved for the second picture too. 🤔🤣
  • DEDICATION POST 🙈 .. because I survived a week without you, but there’s more to life in 2019 than just survival. There’s you. In a completely different context and to another individual entirely, I found myself speaking the following words this week. 👉🏻 I said: you’re right, I don’t need you. But people don’t just stay in each other’s lives because they need to. They stay.. because they want to. Just over three years ago, I didn’t need a man. In fact, I still don’t need a man. But @a_jaxcreative, you make me want one. And well, not just any old bloke, you make me want you. And all that comes with that character too. The love. The support. The praise. The critique. The joy. The sensitivity. The heart. The care. And even the stubbornness. Yes, yes — I don’t think I could be picky about that one. It’s not our anniversary (not yet), but I’m looking at this photo of you drinking coffee at The Grounds of Alexandria — one I forced you to pose for. ☺️ And I want to say thank you now. Thank you for walking into my not-so-promising student life. And for deciding it’d be worthwhile to stick around for that, and the following chapter. Thank you for prioritising my happiness to immeasurable extents. 🙏🏻 Thank you for pushing through the hard times alongside me — or even on your own, when we’ve taken time apart. Thank you for walking and talking to me for hours and miles and kms. Thank you for being as much a willing and idiotic candidate for the activity .. as myself. Thank you for falling in love with my mind, as much as my body and my spirit. Thank you for expressing your love so damn consistently everyday. Thank you for being you, and well, for being *with* me. I love you, @a_jaxcreative. 💕 You also look pretty hip here — so that’s cool for us both really. I’ll see you real soon x
  • NEW YORK MINUTE 🕗 .. let’s talk: is the grind over-glamorised? Or do we still need it? There is SO much noise and debate around the hustle right now. I feel like five minutes ago, everyone was pro work-life balance — and ever since, a counter movement has been forming that demands a more realistic approach. The movement argues that sometimes late nights are necessary. That often we have to grind first, in order to grow. 👉🏻 OR, in order to warrant a rest at all. Having work-life balance every day AND being successful (so they say) simply doesn’t coincide. I must say, I’m inclined to join forces with the movement. As much as it’s been a MUCH-needed focus of mine to integrate more self-care and shall we say, “off” moments, I’d stand aside the aforesaid arguments. Sometimes, in order to succeed and to achieve our goals, we have to let certain things take priority. On occasions, this’ll be work. Other times, this’ll be life. 🥂 How else can we expect to achieve across both? I believe there must be a happy medium between the two. And no doubt we’ll find it when we listen to our intuition. Have I myself yet? Arguably not. If my presence at @newyorkminuteburgers says anything, I think we know the side that comes more naturally. 💁🏽‍♀️ But who could blame me — if grinding away means I can get away with eating burgers this good, then I’m in! Or at least, I was .. until I listened to today’s podcast, and more specifically, to a quote that made me question my need to get 20 things done at once. It said, “Mother Nature doesn’t rush and she still gets everything done.” 🤣 And boy, I don’t think it ever sunk in quite as effectively. Guys, Mother Nature is a BEAST — and she still takes time to chill by the beach. 🌴 She ain’t growing crops all the time; sometimes, to our displeasure, she takes a break. Maybe we could learn more about balance from the motherly figure herself? Or maybe I should just eat my burger and shut up? I don’t know? 🍔🤣
  • FRESH STARTS 🍃 .. they do and can begin on Tuesdays too. If your week hasn’t begun quite how you’d hoped or planned — whether a result of you or your circumstance — know that today is another day. If you’re reading this, you’ve been blessed with another opportunity. An opportunity to live. To let go, to re-focus. To seize whatever it is you’re pacing towards. Today, it’s on our conscience only, should we choose to do the same things — and thus, reap the same results. On that note, enjoy a little excerpt from my latest blog post, “The Power of Re-invention.” 🌱 I hope it inspires a much-needed thought or emotion this Tuesday morning. . . To learn or to develop our lifestyle, so I believe, requires a bit of unlearning too. . To start using your evening for progress, or even, for self-care, means unlearning the habit of going out, of drinking, of occupying your time with unwanted, but seemingly required “plans”. . We’re detaching ourselves from old pressures here, in order to replace these with new desires. ✍🏻 We’re drawing new maps for the people we want to be and for the lives we want to live. . . Read more at the link in my bio now. 🤸🏻‍♀️ Before you head over, remember this: that you have every right to change, to progress and to better yourself in a way that YOU desire. If this change doesn’t fit with old friends, with family or your partner, this is not your fault. It’s not theirs either. We are not puzzle pieces or half-shapes waiting to be matched. ☝🏻 You alone are the full puzzle. The complete individual. You needn’t wait on someone else to come full circle. The only person you should be waiting on — is you. I’ll see you on my blog to share more thoughts (and actionable steps too. We’re about the application as much as we are the muse here). 👋🏻 Have a lovely and intentional Tuesday everyone! . 🏨 : @hotelcollectionist
  • THE ROAD TO THIS LESSON IS LONG 🤦🏽‍♀️ .. but I think I’ve found a shortcut. We all know I’m a resident spokesperson for mixing things up, trying new routines and for saying YES to everything. In fact, I’m only starting to learn now, the power of saying no. I’m a YES girl in about every area of my life — except for when it comes to what I eat. I’ve spoken about it before, and I’m speaking about it again because damn, this road is long. 💁🏽‍♀️ And until now, little real and tangible progress has been made. Until last Wednesday night, of course. It was @a_jaxcreative’s last day in Melbourne before flying back to New Zealand, so we decided to book in a date night at @infusecamberwell. I was nervous. I was anxious. I was sweating. I’m kidding, it wasn’t that bad. 😂 But as usual when entering foreign food territory, I was making mental notes as to the meal I might need on my return home. I think you know where this is going. Long story short, I was STUNNED. 😯 We ordered from @infusecamberwell a selection of dumplings, a roasted cauliflower salad, Penang curry.. and fries, all under the same roof. And I LOVED it. I have decided that fusion restaurants like @infusecamberwell are exactly what I need to introduce myself to different Asian flavours. 💁🏽‍♀️ Thanks to some comforting, modern Australian choices, we can be experimental AND avoid potential downfall of the whole meal simultaneously! Slowly but surely, things are changing, folks! And I’m glad you could be around to see it. 🤣 Now I’m handing the baton over to you! How do you ensure you’re constantly experimenting? With food, with routines.. with anything? 👇🏻 Share below! I clearly need as many tips as I can get. 😋
  • FINDING SOLITUDE🧘🏽‍♀️ .. where do you go? I think we all have a place or even a person to whom we go, when we want to find clarity and calmness. For me, that place was my family bach. 🙌🏻 Whilst I lived at home, we’d venture here every year to spend the last few weeks of January. It was positioned right on Tindalls Bay in Whangaparaoa, NZ. Every visit, I’d revel in the opportunity to escape from school and life stresses. I’d wander the beach, reading a new book each day. 📖 In the afternoons, myself and my siblings would dedicate hours to exploring the rocks. We’d be welcomed back by an al fresco barbecue in the evening. I returned from this holiday each year with sun-kissed cheeks and soft shoulders. 🤸🏻‍♀️ I was my most relaxed and I was ready to start the year. These days, when I can’t reach Tindalls Bay, I still seek solitude by the beach. There’s something about the waves; their consistency and even, their refusal to acknowledge your presence. This always succeeds in reminding me that life is far bigger. It’s far bigger than you. It’s bigger than me. It’s bigger than all the little and large “issues” that surround us both. Whilst I love the pace of the city for now, one day, I think I’ll find my way back to the beach. 🙏🏻 I’ll live out this utterly serene lifestyle, and I’ll free myself of any and all pressures to do, or to complete, or to progress. I’ll simply enjoy. Where do you go to find your own sense of clarity and calm? 👇🏻

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  • ONE OF MY BIGGEST PROWESSES TO DATE 🥂 .. and not for the reason you might think. Indeed, I’ve finally headed back to New Zealand to get my hands on that degree I earned some time back! I was so eager to live (and in a bigger city too) — I rushed off to Melbourne before waiting around to celebrate, or even, to congratulate myself. I knew that at some point, I’d come back to Wellington. I’d shake the hand of some esteemed chancellor. 🙌🏻 It just so happened that Thursday would be that day. It felt good. But not because I finally had that piece of paper in my hands; a tangible sign of the work I did. It felt good because I had the chance to reflect. And finally, to pat myself on the back for nailing this degree in a most characteristic way. When I moved to Wellington to study, I made a firm decision that would be it. From then onwards, I would grow to be independent. I would call this city home. I would seize its every opportunity. And so whilst flocks of students headed homewards for Summer, I stayed. I made new memories. New friends. I learnt many new lessons. I threw myself into Summer school every year. I spoke to whoever I could, to take on AS many papers as I could (on top of working too. Towards the end, almost full-time). 🤦🏽‍♀️ Sometimes I myself wonder how it all came through. As a result, I condensed a three year (plus) degree into two swift years. 🙏🏻 I came out of that city, young and eager and ready. And much the way I felt when I first left home, I knew I didn’t need any more time in Wellington in order to grow. It was time to find my new destination. This Thursday gone, I felt proud.. mostly because looking back, I really listened to my heart. Despite the journey of those around me, I took it in my stride to write my own. As a result, I’ve earned an education, a sense of experience and of life at the same time. Whatever your story, take a moment to be damn proud of it. 💁🏽‍♀️ I sure as hell don’t do it enough. More details of my look coming soon! 💕 For now, see below! . 👉🏻 @becandbridge Elle Cut Out Midi Dress, with thanks to the ever-handy @hireadressnz. 👉🏻 Make-up & hair by the lovely Wellington-based, @m.y.artistry.
  • LIFE’S GOT YOUR BACK 🤙🏻 .. and don’t you forget it! I really do believe that life has a funny way of blessing us — and in more ways than we might be aware. First example. This absolutely heavenly porridge and a “Nana Bing” smoothie at @snowwhitebakerymelb. 🙈 I couldn’t have foreseen such a gift, if I tried! Talk about the blessing of all blessings. Second example. The girl laughing right here. Not me, lol. The other one. Despite the fact that certain characters in my life have fallen short, I learnt a long time ago not to feel unlucky. I looked around, and I noticed everyone had their thing. Their someone. Their story. And I noticed that sometimes, they didn’t have what I had. A super close relationship to their siblings. Support from a parent. And a wide group of incredibly loving friends. To this day, I feel absolutely grateful. Because whilst I don’t have everything, I’ve realised none of us do. And yet, somehow, life comes around and gives us everything we need anyway. Like you, @themelbournelook. Like you! And yes, we did order exactly the same thing at @snowwhitebakerymelb. 😋 And no, we didn’t have a single regret about it! Happy Friday everyone! I hope you’re just as happy with your lot in life as I am!
  • THERE IS BEAUTY IN BEING ALONE 🚶🏻‍♀️ .. and I think we all deserve to discover it. Just a couple of days ago, I wrote a post highlighting my relationship and my choice to do life with another person. Much as I stand by those words, I want to introduce another side to them. That is, the beauty of being alone. I’m potentially a rare case because I love my own time. But recently, I’ve discovered (and I’d love to share) a really cool reason why. This may sound odd, but I truly believe that I am BETTER at controlling my outlook, my mindset and my mental health when I’m alone. Perhaps it’s because I know there’s no one else to rely on. And so I’m forced to go back to basics. To the drawing stage, even. I’m inclined to indulge with intention, in the things that make me happy. If I feel down or lonely or lost, it’s on me to find a solution. I have to lift myself, like a child, out of her sulky state. This week, I’ve realised how thankful I am, for the many times I haven’t shied away from my own time. From my own head and from her own thoughts. I’ve put myself right between the rock and the hard place, and learnt to get myself the hell out of there. So whilst it mightn’t have been exactly what A.J. wanted to hear when he called from New Zealand this week — I told him I was glad to have this time. It reminded me that if I was only me in Melbourne, I’d be just fine. I’d look after this little head and little body and little being .. just okay. I’d stop to smell the flowers. I’d even have a giggle to myself. I’d feel content with only me too. And I’m proud of that. I hope that in future, I’ll still say the same. What about you? Are you comfortable with being by yourself? 🧘🏽‍♀️ Better yet, are you happy? If not, have you considered throwing yourself in the deep end to learn how?
  • POST-WORKOUT HACK 💁🏽‍♀️ .. why didn’t I think of this sooner? I feel many things post-workout, but let it be said, “pretty” or “glamorous” are neither of them. Picture Tom Hanks in Castaway.. minus the beard. 😆 I look more like that. And whilst I love a sign of a good workout, this isn’t so handy when I’m rushing off to brunch or an event afterwards. Yesterday, I wanted to squeeze in a quick workout prior to jumping on the plane back to New Zealand. I knew it’d be tight, but also, that I’d thank myself later. It was a foreign feeling when I left the gym, feeling more fresh and ready to go than I ever have before.. and all credit to the gorgeous team at @hibeautynails! 💅🏻 That morning, they’d treated me to a manicure, pedicure and eyelash extensions too! All I can say is: wow, the devil really is in the detail — and not just when it comes to how we look, but more importantly, to the way we feel. After my workout, I’d have happily headed to brunch; showered or not. 🙋🏽‍♀️ Make-up free too! As for my nails, this has been my first time trialling SNS and I’m already impressed. Usually I avoid getting my nails done (just ask @a_jaxcreative who absolutely cringes at the sight of them ☺️). But too many times, I’ve gone to live my life — and they’ve broken or chipped immediately. Yesterday, I worked out as usual. I didn’t hold back at all. 💪🏻 And to my pleasure, not a single flaw has forgone my crisp, white aesthetic! Finally, I can balance doing feminine things whilst being a badass girl boss too! I should also note that my last beauty appointment was so far from relaxing — I almost crossed off the entire concept as a means for self care and indulgence. After a visit to @hibeautynails yesterday, I’m entirely re-convinced. 👌🏼 It was exactly the calming and feel-good experience that I needed before leaving Melbourne! Do you have any other tips for fitting in your workouts when you’re in a rush — whether between meetings, brunches or events? 👇🏻 What are your go-to hacks?! I’d love to know! P.S. I’m bewildered at what point the frame behind me moved for the second picture too. 🤔🤣
  • DEDICATION POST 🙈 .. because I survived a week without you, but there’s more to life in 2019 than just survival. There’s you. In a completely different context and to another individual entirely, I found myself speaking the following words this week. 👉🏻 I said: you’re right, I don’t need you. But people don’t just stay in each other’s lives because they need to. They stay.. because they want to. Just over three years ago, I didn’t need a man. In fact, I still don’t need a man. But @a_jaxcreative, you make me want one. And well, not just any old bloke, you make me want you. And all that comes with that character too. The love. The support. The praise. The critique. The joy. The sensitivity. The heart. The care. And even the stubbornness. Yes, yes — I don’t think I could be picky about that one. It’s not our anniversary (not yet), but I’m looking at this photo of you drinking coffee at The Grounds of Alexandria — one I forced you to pose for. ☺️ And I want to say thank you now. Thank you for walking into my not-so-promising student life. And for deciding it’d be worthwhile to stick around for that, and the following chapter. Thank you for prioritising my happiness to immeasurable extents. 🙏🏻 Thank you for pushing through the hard times alongside me — or even on your own, when we’ve taken time apart. Thank you for walking and talking to me for hours and miles and kms. Thank you for being as much a willing and idiotic candidate for the activity .. as myself. Thank you for falling in love with my mind, as much as my body and my spirit. Thank you for expressing your love so damn consistently everyday. Thank you for being you, and well, for being *with* me. I love you, @a_jaxcreative. 💕 You also look pretty hip here — so that’s cool for us both really. I’ll see you real soon x
  • NEW YORK MINUTE 🕗 .. let’s talk: is the grind over-glamorised? Or do we still need it? There is SO much noise and debate around the hustle right now. I feel like five minutes ago, everyone was pro work-life balance — and ever since, a counter movement has been forming that demands a more realistic approach. The movement argues that sometimes late nights are necessary. That often we have to grind first, in order to grow. 👉🏻 OR, in order to warrant a rest at all. Having work-life balance every day AND being successful (so they say) simply doesn’t coincide. I must say, I’m inclined to join forces with the movement. As much as it’s been a MUCH-needed focus of mine to integrate more self-care and shall we say, “off” moments, I’d stand aside the aforesaid arguments. Sometimes, in order to succeed and to achieve our goals, we have to let certain things take priority. On occasions, this’ll be work. Other times, this’ll be life. 🥂 How else can we expect to achieve across both? I believe there must be a happy medium between the two. And no doubt we’ll find it when we listen to our intuition. Have I myself yet? Arguably not. If my presence at @newyorkminuteburgers says anything, I think we know the side that comes more naturally. 💁🏽‍♀️ But who could blame me — if grinding away means I can get away with eating burgers this good, then I’m in! Or at least, I was .. until I listened to today’s podcast, and more specifically, to a quote that made me question my need to get 20 things done at once. It said, “Mother Nature doesn’t rush and she still gets everything done.” 🤣 And boy, I don’t think it ever sunk in quite as effectively. Guys, Mother Nature is a BEAST — and she still takes time to chill by the beach. 🌴 She ain’t growing crops all the time; sometimes, to our displeasure, she takes a break. Maybe we could learn more about balance from the motherly figure herself? Or maybe I should just eat my burger and shut up? I don’t know? 🍔🤣
  • FRESH STARTS 🍃 .. they do and can begin on Tuesdays too. If your week hasn’t begun quite how you’d hoped or planned — whether a result of you or your circumstance — know that today is another day. If you’re reading this, you’ve been blessed with another opportunity. An opportunity to live. To let go, to re-focus. To seize whatever it is you’re pacing towards. Today, it’s on our conscience only, should we choose to do the same things — and thus, reap the same results. On that note, enjoy a little excerpt from my latest blog post, “The Power of Re-invention.” 🌱 I hope it inspires a much-needed thought or emotion this Tuesday morning. . . To learn or to develop our lifestyle, so I believe, requires a bit of unlearning too. . To start using your evening for progress, or even, for self-care, means unlearning the habit of going out, of drinking, of occupying your time with unwanted, but seemingly required “plans”. . We’re detaching ourselves from old pressures here, in order to replace these with new desires. ✍🏻 We’re drawing new maps for the people we want to be and for the lives we want to live. . . Read more at the link in my bio now. 🤸🏻‍♀️ Before you head over, remember this: that you have every right to change, to progress and to better yourself in a way that YOU desire. If this change doesn’t fit with old friends, with family or your partner, this is not your fault. It’s not theirs either. We are not puzzle pieces or half-shapes waiting to be matched. ☝🏻 You alone are the full puzzle. The complete individual. You needn’t wait on someone else to come full circle. The only person you should be waiting on — is you. I’ll see you on my blog to share more thoughts (and actionable steps too. We’re about the application as much as we are the muse here). 👋🏻 Have a lovely and intentional Tuesday everyone! . 🏨 : @hotelcollectionist
  • THE ROAD TO THIS LESSON IS LONG 🤦🏽‍♀️ .. but I think I’ve found a shortcut. We all know I’m a resident spokesperson for mixing things up, trying new routines and for saying YES to everything. In fact, I’m only starting to learn now, the power of saying no. I’m a YES girl in about every area of my life — except for when it comes to what I eat. I’ve spoken about it before, and I’m speaking about it again because damn, this road is long. 💁🏽‍♀️ And until now, little real and tangible progress has been made. Until last Wednesday night, of course. It was @a_jaxcreative’s last day in Melbourne before flying back to New Zealand, so we decided to book in a date night at @infusecamberwell. I was nervous. I was anxious. I was sweating. I’m kidding, it wasn’t that bad. 😂 But as usual when entering foreign food territory, I was making mental notes as to the meal I might need on my return home. I think you know where this is going. Long story short, I was STUNNED. 😯 We ordered from @infusecamberwell a selection of dumplings, a roasted cauliflower salad, Penang curry.. and fries, all under the same roof. And I LOVED it. I have decided that fusion restaurants like @infusecamberwell are exactly what I need to introduce myself to different Asian flavours. 💁🏽‍♀️ Thanks to some comforting, modern Australian choices, we can be experimental AND avoid potential downfall of the whole meal simultaneously! Slowly but surely, things are changing, folks! And I’m glad you could be around to see it. 🤣 Now I’m handing the baton over to you! How do you ensure you’re constantly experimenting? With food, with routines.. with anything? 👇🏻 Share below! I clearly need as many tips as I can get. 😋
  • FINDING SOLITUDE🧘🏽‍♀️ .. where do you go? I think we all have a place or even a person to whom we go, when we want to find clarity and calmness. For me, that place was my family bach. 🙌🏻 Whilst I lived at home, we’d venture here every year to spend the last few weeks of January. It was positioned right on Tindalls Bay in Whangaparaoa, NZ. Every visit, I’d revel in the opportunity to escape from school and life stresses. I’d wander the beach, reading a new book each day. 📖 In the afternoons, myself and my siblings would dedicate hours to exploring the rocks. We’d be welcomed back by an al fresco barbecue in the evening. I returned from this holiday each year with sun-kissed cheeks and soft shoulders. 🤸🏻‍♀️ I was my most relaxed and I was ready to start the year. These days, when I can’t reach Tindalls Bay, I still seek solitude by the beach. There’s something about the waves; their consistency and even, their refusal to acknowledge your presence. This always succeeds in reminding me that life is far bigger. It’s far bigger than you. It’s bigger than me. It’s bigger than all the little and large “issues” that surround us both. Whilst I love the pace of the city for now, one day, I think I’ll find my way back to the beach. 🙏🏻 I’ll live out this utterly serene lifestyle, and I’ll free myself of any and all pressures to do, or to complete, or to progress. I’ll simply enjoy. Where do you go to find your own sense of clarity and calm? 👇🏻

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  • ONE OF MY BIGGEST PROWESSES TO DATE 🥂 .. and not for the reason you might think. Indeed, I’ve finally headed back to New Zealand to get my hands on that degree I earned some time back! I was so eager to live (and in a bigger city too) — I rushed off to Melbourne before waiting around to celebrate, or even, to congratulate myself. I knew that at some point, I’d come back to Wellington. I’d shake the hand of some esteemed chancellor. 🙌🏻 It just so happened that Thursday would be that day. It felt good. But not because I finally had that piece of paper in my hands; a tangible sign of the work I did. It felt good because I had the chance to reflect. And finally, to pat myself on the back for nailing this degree in a most characteristic way. When I moved to Wellington to study, I made a firm decision that would be it. From then onwards, I would grow to be independent. I would call this city home. I would seize its every opportunity. And so whilst flocks of students headed homewards for Summer, I stayed. I made new memories. New friends. I learnt many new lessons. I threw myself into Summer school every year. I spoke to whoever I could, to take on AS many papers as I could (on top of working too. Towards the end, almost full-time). 🤦🏽‍♀️ Sometimes I myself wonder how it all came through. As a result, I condensed a three year (plus) degree into two swift years. 🙏🏻 I came out of that city, young and eager and ready. And much the way I felt when I first left home, I knew I didn’t need any more time in Wellington in order to grow. It was time to find my new destination. This Thursday gone, I felt proud.. mostly because looking back, I really listened to my heart. Despite the journey of those around me, I took it in my stride to write my own. As a result, I’ve earned an education, a sense of experience and of life at the same time. Whatever your story, take a moment to be damn proud of it. 💁🏽‍♀️ I sure as hell don’t do it enough. More details of my look coming soon! 💕 For now, see below! . 👉🏻 @becandbridge Elle Cut Out Midi Dress, with thanks to the ever-handy @hireadressnz. 👉🏻 Make-up & hair by the lovely Wellington-based, @m.y.artistry.
  • LIFE’S GOT YOUR BACK 🤙🏻 .. and don’t you forget it! I really do believe that life has a funny way of blessing us — and in more ways than we might be aware. First example. This absolutely heavenly porridge and a “Nana Bing” smoothie at @snowwhitebakerymelb. 🙈 I couldn’t have foreseen such a gift, if I tried! Talk about the blessing of all blessings. Second example. The girl laughing right here. Not me, lol. The other one. Despite the fact that certain characters in my life have fallen short, I learnt a long time ago not to feel unlucky. I looked around, and I noticed everyone had their thing. Their someone. Their story. And I noticed that sometimes, they didn’t have what I had. A super close relationship to their siblings. Support from a parent. And a wide group of incredibly loving friends. To this day, I feel absolutely grateful. Because whilst I don’t have everything, I’ve realised none of us do. And yet, somehow, life comes around and gives us everything we need anyway. Like you, @themelbournelook. Like you! And yes, we did order exactly the same thing at @snowwhitebakerymelb. 😋 And no, we didn’t have a single regret about it! Happy Friday everyone! I hope you’re just as happy with your lot in life as I am!
  • THERE IS BEAUTY IN BEING ALONE 🚶🏻‍♀️ .. and I think we all deserve to discover it. Just a couple of days ago, I wrote a post highlighting my relationship and my choice to do life with another person. Much as I stand by those words, I want to introduce another side to them. That is, the beauty of being alone. I’m potentially a rare case because I love my own time. But recently, I’ve discovered (and I’d love to share) a really cool reason why. This may sound odd, but I truly believe that I am BETTER at controlling my outlook, my mindset and my mental health when I’m alone. Perhaps it’s because I know there’s no one else to rely on. And so I’m forced to go back to basics. To the drawing stage, even. I’m inclined to indulge with intention, in the things that make me happy. If I feel down or lonely or lost, it’s on me to find a solution. I have to lift myself, like a child, out of her sulky state. This week, I’ve realised how thankful I am, for the many times I haven’t shied away from my own time. From my own head and from her own thoughts. I’ve put myself right between the rock and the hard place, and learnt to get myself the hell out of there. So whilst it mightn’t have been exactly what A.J. wanted to hear when he called from New Zealand this week — I told him I was glad to have this time. It reminded me that if I was only me in Melbourne, I’d be just fine. I’d look after this little head and little body and little being .. just okay. I’d stop to smell the flowers. I’d even have a giggle to myself. I’d feel content with only me too. And I’m proud of that. I hope that in future, I’ll still say the same. What about you? Are you comfortable with being by yourself? 🧘🏽‍♀️ Better yet, are you happy? If not, have you considered throwing yourself in the deep end to learn how?
  • POST-WORKOUT HACK 💁🏽‍♀️ .. why didn’t I think of this sooner? I feel many things post-workout, but let it be said, “pretty” or “glamorous” are neither of them. Picture Tom Hanks in Castaway.. minus the beard. 😆 I look more like that. And whilst I love a sign of a good workout, this isn’t so handy when I’m rushing off to brunch or an event afterwards. Yesterday, I wanted to squeeze in a quick workout prior to jumping on the plane back to New Zealand. I knew it’d be tight, but also, that I’d thank myself later. It was a foreign feeling when I left the gym, feeling more fresh and ready to go than I ever have before.. and all credit to the gorgeous team at @hibeautynails! 💅🏻 That morning, they’d treated me to a manicure, pedicure and eyelash extensions too! All I can say is: wow, the devil really is in the detail — and not just when it comes to how we look, but more importantly, to the way we feel. After my workout, I’d have happily headed to brunch; showered or not. 🙋🏽‍♀️ Make-up free too! As for my nails, this has been my first time trialling SNS and I’m already impressed. Usually I avoid getting my nails done (just ask @a_jaxcreative who absolutely cringes at the sight of them ☺️). But too many times, I’ve gone to live my life — and they’ve broken or chipped immediately. Yesterday, I worked out as usual. I didn’t hold back at all. 💪🏻 And to my pleasure, not a single flaw has forgone my crisp, white aesthetic! Finally, I can balance doing feminine things whilst being a badass girl boss too! I should also note that my last beauty appointment was so far from relaxing — I almost crossed off the entire concept as a means for self care and indulgence. After a visit to @hibeautynails yesterday, I’m entirely re-convinced. 👌🏼 It was exactly the calming and feel-good experience that I needed before leaving Melbourne! Do you have any other tips for fitting in your workouts when you’re in a rush — whether between meetings, brunches or events? 👇🏻 What are your go-to hacks?! I’d love to know! P.S. I’m bewildered at what point the frame behind me moved for the second picture too. 🤔🤣
  • DEDICATION POST 🙈 .. because I survived a week without you, but there’s more to life in 2019 than just survival. There’s you. In a completely different context and to another individual entirely, I found myself speaking the following words this week. 👉🏻 I said: you’re right, I don’t need you. But people don’t just stay in each other’s lives because they need to. They stay.. because they want to. Just over three years ago, I didn’t need a man. In fact, I still don’t need a man. But @a_jaxcreative, you make me want one. And well, not just any old bloke, you make me want you. And all that comes with that character too. The love. The support. The praise. The critique. The joy. The sensitivity. The heart. The care. And even the stubbornness. Yes, yes — I don’t think I could be picky about that one. It’s not our anniversary (not yet), but I’m looking at this photo of you drinking coffee at The Grounds of Alexandria — one I forced you to pose for. ☺️ And I want to say thank you now. Thank you for walking into my not-so-promising student life. And for deciding it’d be worthwhile to stick around for that, and the following chapter. Thank you for prioritising my happiness to immeasurable extents. 🙏🏻 Thank you for pushing through the hard times alongside me — or even on your own, when we’ve taken time apart. Thank you for walking and talking to me for hours and miles and kms. Thank you for being as much a willing and idiotic candidate for the activity .. as myself. Thank you for falling in love with my mind, as much as my body and my spirit. Thank you for expressing your love so damn consistently everyday. Thank you for being you, and well, for being *with* me. I love you, @a_jaxcreative. 💕 You also look pretty hip here — so that’s cool for us both really. I’ll see you real soon x
  • NEW YORK MINUTE 🕗 .. let’s talk: is the grind over-glamorised? Or do we still need it? There is SO much noise and debate around the hustle right now. I feel like five minutes ago, everyone was pro work-life balance — and ever since, a counter movement has been forming that demands a more realistic approach. The movement argues that sometimes late nights are necessary. That often we have to grind first, in order to grow. 👉🏻 OR, in order to warrant a rest at all. Having work-life balance every day AND being successful (so they say) simply doesn’t coincide. I must say, I’m inclined to join forces with the movement. As much as it’s been a MUCH-needed focus of mine to integrate more self-care and shall we say, “off” moments, I’d stand aside the aforesaid arguments. Sometimes, in order to succeed and to achieve our goals, we have to let certain things take priority. On occasions, this’ll be work. Other times, this’ll be life. 🥂 How else can we expect to achieve across both? I believe there must be a happy medium between the two. And no doubt we’ll find it when we listen to our intuition. Have I myself yet? Arguably not. If my presence at @newyorkminuteburgers says anything, I think we know the side that comes more naturally. 💁🏽‍♀️ But who could blame me — if grinding away means I can get away with eating burgers this good, then I’m in! Or at least, I was .. until I listened to today’s podcast, and more specifically, to a quote that made me question my need to get 20 things done at once. It said, “Mother Nature doesn’t rush and she still gets everything done.” 🤣 And boy, I don’t think it ever sunk in quite as effectively. Guys, Mother Nature is a BEAST — and she still takes time to chill by the beach. 🌴 She ain’t growing crops all the time; sometimes, to our displeasure, she takes a break. Maybe we could learn more about balance from the motherly figure herself? Or maybe I should just eat my burger and shut up? I don’t know? 🍔🤣
  • FRESH STARTS 🍃 .. they do and can begin on Tuesdays too. If your week hasn’t begun quite how you’d hoped or planned — whether a result of you or your circumstance — know that today is another day. If you’re reading this, you’ve been blessed with another opportunity. An opportunity to live. To let go, to re-focus. To seize whatever it is you’re pacing towards. Today, it’s on our conscience only, should we choose to do the same things — and thus, reap the same results. On that note, enjoy a little excerpt from my latest blog post, “The Power of Re-invention.” 🌱 I hope it inspires a much-needed thought or emotion this Tuesday morning. . . To learn or to develop our lifestyle, so I believe, requires a bit of unlearning too. . To start using your evening for progress, or even, for self-care, means unlearning the habit of going out, of drinking, of occupying your time with unwanted, but seemingly required “plans”. . We’re detaching ourselves from old pressures here, in order to replace these with new desires. ✍🏻 We’re drawing new maps for the people we want to be and for the lives we want to live. . . Read more at the link in my bio now. 🤸🏻‍♀️ Before you head over, remember this: that you have every right to change, to progress and to better yourself in a way that YOU desire. If this change doesn’t fit with old friends, with family or your partner, this is not your fault. It’s not theirs either. We are not puzzle pieces or half-shapes waiting to be matched. ☝🏻 You alone are the full puzzle. The complete individual. You needn’t wait on someone else to come full circle. The only person you should be waiting on — is you. I’ll see you on my blog to share more thoughts (and actionable steps too. We’re about the application as much as we are the muse here). 👋🏻 Have a lovely and intentional Tuesday everyone! . 🏨 : @hotelcollectionist

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